I'm being tortured with indecision S3 vs Note 2

I can't seem to make a decision over the S3 and a Note 2. So, I decided to go to a T-Mobile store and spent an hour with 2 funtional phones. I can't decide. The note is VERY nice. But it's SO big. The S3 fits in my hand (Im a woman) but is small by comparison. I am coming from a Vibrant.

Any input, especially from woman would be helpful. I am a jeans kind of gal so I would want it in a pocket.